characters > bongani linda Bongani Linda’s story"Rape is a man’s problem, more than anything." Before the film
Bongani is a South African man whose girlfriend was gang raped
and who subsequently committed suicide. Bongani, in his anger, confronted one
of the rapists.
"In that anger, I killed him.
I was arrested."
Bongani was remanded in custody for about
24 months, during which time he started a theatre group to address
men directly
and help them understand that sexually assaulting women and
children is not acceptable.
When the trial eventually took place,
Bongani was acquitted.
Bongani meets Cathy
When Bongani met Cathy, he told her, "Thank God I was acquitted,
because [the] charges were dropped against me. [But] after that, I got very
worried [about] what kind of a society is this because, in fact, it just did
not end then. Rape became a popular crime in our townships, and, you know, still
today it’s still like that. It’s sky-high. It’s crime number
one.
"The reason I ended up taking the law into my own hands in
the 80s was not because I wanted to, but it was because I was frustrated.
"I was weak because I took a very short
route - a short route to revenge which is something that is
unacceptable.
You
cannot rectify a wrong with another wrong.
"But rape is a man’s problem, more than anything. It’s
a man’s problem, and I’m worried because it’s still fashionable."
How Bongani uses theatre to deal with frustration
Today,
Bongani believes that there’s nothing as frustrating as not trusting the
law itself. He uses theatre, and has trained as a counsellor, to help get the
message across: that men need to do something to stop violence against women
and children.
"Theatre
has played a very important role in popular education right from the days of
apartheid, [when] protest theatre was used as a tool to inform international
audiences [about] what was happening in the country. I was influenced so much
by that era, by protest theatre, and I actually learnt from that time that theatre
is the best medium to reach out, to inform, to educate, to train, to empower
young people.
"You take their reality, you put it on stage, you make them
feel part and parcel, you portray them on the stage and then they get entertained,
they get hooked to the story. From there you speak to them, you address them
in a workshop situation.
"We
make them grow and realise that what they did was wrong. [The
actors in my troupe] are in a family of ex-offenders
that have learnt from their previous experience and they have
actually grown to say what we did in the past was wrong. It takes
an experienced criminal to educate a would-be criminal that crime
does not pay."
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